Marry Me
Terence Fisher (1949)
BFI’s latest ‘Projecting the Archive’ offering, as curator Jo Botting explained, was a matter of unfinished business. She had planned to show Marry Me to mark the centenary of the birth of Lewis Gilbert, best known as the director of Alfie (1966), Educating Rita (1983) and three James Bonds but also the co-writer (with Denis Waldock) of this Terence Fisher romantic comedy. Gilbert was born in March 1920; the screening of Marry Me was scheduled on the very day that BFI closed for business in the first Covid lockdown. Jo Botting had exhumed the film to mark another anniversary: it was shown exactly twenty-five years on from the death of one of Marry Me‘s leads, David Tomlinson.
Miles Jupp played Tomlinson in the theatre in 2019 in The Life I Lead, James Kettle’s stage biography of the actor. The pair’s introduction to the screening was naturally Tomlinson-centric but Jupp and Kettle were an entertaining, informative double act. The Disney hits – Mary Poppins (1964) especially but The Love Bug (1968) and Bedknobs and Broomsticks (1971) too – earned David Tomlinson much bigger bucks than anything he’d been used to in British cinema. He made his last film in 1980. Miles Jupp noted that, in the last two decades of his life, the only acting Tomlinson did was on the telephone, doing an impression of his own agent and turning down any role offered.
Introductions over, the Gainsborough Pictures titles came up, Marry Me got underway and an enjoyable evening ground to a halt. Tomlinson plays the anchor character, David Haig, a journalist in London, whose editor (George Merritt) gives him an undercover assignment, investigating what lies behind the lonelyhearts ads in the weekly newsletter produced by a London marriage bureau. (The bureau is run by two spinster sisters (Jean Cadell and Mary Jerrold).) The journalist poses as a client looking for love; in due course, bachelor David comes to see that’s what he really is. After a false start with Miss Beamish (Alison Leggatt – so a shame that Miss Beamish is unsuitable), David hits it off with Doris Pearson (Carol Marsh), the marriage bureau’s second choice for him. They’re both, though, pretending to be something they’re not – Doris that she moves in high society circles, David that he’s an Australian sheep farmer.
There’s plenty more dissimulation going on elsewhere in the story (one instance of this, oddly enough, almost anticipates David Tomlinson’s later-life impressions of his agent). Martin Roberts (Patrick Holt) admits to being a ‘country bumpkin’ but not, at first anyway, to being the vicar of a rural parish church; Martin is partnered with Pat Cooper (Susan Shaw), who claims she has an office job to disguise the scandalous truth that she’s a dance-hall hostess, until her flatmate and work colleague Brenda Delamere (Brenda Bruce) inadvertently gives Pat away. Saunders (Denis O’Dea), valet to misogynist cynic Sir Gordon Blake (Guy Middleton), answers the telephone to his master’s prospective soulmate, schoolteacher Enid Lawson (Nora Swinburne): impersonating Sir Gordon, Saunders sets in motion a mistaken identity comedy. In a supposedly dramatic counterweight, a Frenchwoman whose visa is about to expire needs a husband in order to stay in Britain: Marcelle Duclos (Zena Marshall) offers £500 to Andrew Scott (Derek Bond), who needs cash but doesn’t think he wants romance; Marcelle doesn’t mention that her old flame, Louis Renier (Anthony Nevile), is a convicted murderer and thief, who has recently escaped from prison and followed her to London.
You can probably guess what happens next and eventually in all four stories. There’s nothing surprising or inventive in the film, which relies on and keeps tiresomely stressing an assortment of national stereotypes. You notice the cast members who would thrive as strong character actors in the decades ahead – particularly Brenda Bruce and Joan Hickson (in a very brief appearance as Doris Pearson’s mother). David Tomlinson is clearly already on the way to perfecting the English type he came to embody (it’s no accident that David Haig doesn’t even bother trying an Australian accent) – his aptitude for humorous exasperation is much in evidence. None of the actors is bad but the script and direction are dire. Marry Me isn’t a fitting tribute to Tomlinson, Lewis Gilbert or anyone else involved.
Another ‘Projecting the Archive’, another forgotten British film that alas deserves to stay that way. One other point worth noting, though. This BFI slot tends towards kneejerk nostalgia – but whose nostalgia? Rather few members of the NFT1 audience could have been old enough to see the picture on its original release or remember it with affection. I wondered if some of the titters heard throughout the screening had a polite, slightly condescending edge to them – as if to say, ‘Well, yes, I suppose people found this amusing back in 1949’. Not that many people, though. If Wikipedia is to be believed, Marry Me ‘was a box office flop, recording a loss of £67,600’ – which was-a-lot-of-money-in-those-days.
24 June 2025